F$&ck you is probably not what you were looking for? That sucks!
That is precisely why I didnt tell ANYONE about my band... people are douchebags.
People are a** holes. I am sorry you experienced that. I had a friend tell me that no one has a right to judge you for it until they have walk a mile in your shoes. F*** them. This is one of the HARDEST things we have all done. This person just doesn't get it and is probably not an asset to you at this point. Hang in there sister!!! hugs!